tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15285473492640976532024-02-20T22:31:28.131-08:00on being a misismy two cents worth on married life... and more!elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-1229908515562787982011-08-09T15:18:00.000-07:002011-08-09T15:28:05.373-07:00(Only 20 Weeks to Go Until) The Ultimate Getaway<span style="font-family:arial;">Well, hello there August! Actually, we’re busy counting the days until we come home to the Philippines for our New Year vacation. I know we still have “mini-travels” (as what I would refer to ‘em those short lakwatsa) but the mister and I had already planned out our itinerary for Pinas.
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<br />When vacationing, I really prefer to have a set schedule. Of course, I allow spontaneous happenings but an itinerary is indeed a timesaver. Besides I’m not that strict; I include options. I just choose to be ready than be all over the place. Talking with my cousin, Lui, makes me even more psyched about it. She’s my gala partner, we are already blueprinting our foodtrips as well! (After this, we’ll arrange Elysse’s first birthday there too.)
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<br />Also this would be Vince’s first trip to Pinas after 7 long years! Can you imagine how culture shock he would be?! (ako ngang umuuwi halos every year hindi maiwasang magulat everytime, sya pa kaya?!) I’m very excited for him and Elysse. I’ve been dreaming of this since we became official. I can’t wait for him to be reunited with his family.
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<br />Hay December, bilisan mo! (but then again, I’m thrilled for our September in Austin and October in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. Hehe!) </span>
<br />elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-15927248606844348192011-06-27T10:12:00.000-07:002011-06-27T10:13:39.648-07:00Day Off<span style="font-family:arial;">Last Saturday, Vince and I had another day off. We watched Les Miserables with my brother and some friends. Vince had seen this musical twice already but he loves me so much that he’s willing to experience it for the third time with me! ♥<br /><br />Before we had our little girl we both agreed that once in a while we’re going to take some hours off from being parents and just be mister-and-misis. We’re so blessed that my family is here to babysit Elysse. May it be a quick run to the grocery, or a 2hr movie, or a fine dinner; we’d grab time to be with each other. In this way we’ll be able to flourish our communication and really talk about our concerns regarding family life.<br /><br />This is one important reason why I love being married to Vince, we share this same view. Don’t get us wrong, we adore our little miss a lot, we just know that if we’re wonderful as a husband-wife team then for sure we’d be better parents to her. </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-31598419960647340972011-06-07T15:21:00.000-07:002011-06-07T15:30:09.565-07:00Food Blog Entry #3 - Beouf Bourguignon<span style="font-family:arial;">When ‘Julie & Julia’ came to theatre, I knew I had to watch it. But I didn’t. It didn’t occur to me that I’d love the film. I watched it on DVD and I was blown away. It was like an instant inspiration to cook more and blog more!<br /><br />I’ve never encountered Julia Child before the movie. (Remember my “not-so-fascinated-with-French-cuisine” attitude?) But right after being captivated by her heartfelt kitchen spirit, I began scouring for her recipes. Beouf Bourguignon (which is simply braised beef in red wine) is one of her most famed masterpiece. Hence, the quest for a Dutch oven started (I don’t have budget yet for a Le Creuset so I settled for a Red Martha). Then the rest is all in my cooking history.<br /><br />Cheers to another faboulous French dish!<br /></span><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhlRL5ZVW4SN9EKNqCtWwDBAOsUTITS8BgHUT7v2B13gZb03Qy8Y4iwQ5abIPQgKMOLHonMHXc11nctGy3RHHSeA3vdG8cBYMSdNll39k6PYivcTSCO5FFJVbbS3yIONIfXJFzeW87x0244/s1600/2.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 180px; HEIGHT: 233px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5615607113127024194" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhlRL5ZVW4SN9EKNqCtWwDBAOsUTITS8BgHUT7v2B13gZb03Qy8Y4iwQ5abIPQgKMOLHonMHXc11nctGy3RHHSeA3vdG8cBYMSdNll39k6PYivcTSCO5FFJVbbS3yIONIfXJFzeW87x0244/s320/2.jpg" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYYNAUAbT8B2zjVmi-Yu5e4rimyJaXZtZzgtGCkADBs5mGMrezNkqVw_FPvRMKUWP9-ZYyYjt4-DCv7UlZZjDQr81lIoT2ILACKWUznWrGXY5lqWGTYSaveqoYwcDe1ICK62IVj08E_Dnu/s1600/1.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 311px; HEIGHT: 232px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5615607022164225250" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYYNAUAbT8B2zjVmi-Yu5e4rimyJaXZtZzgtGCkADBs5mGMrezNkqVw_FPvRMKUWP9-ZYyYjt4-DCv7UlZZjDQr81lIoT2ILACKWUznWrGXY5lqWGTYSaveqoYwcDe1ICK62IVj08E_Dnu/s320/1.jpg" /></a> <span style="font-family:arial;"><br /><br /><div><br /><div>Ingredients<br />1 tablespoon good olive oil<br />5-7 pcs center cut applewood smoked bacon, diced<br />2 lbs chuck beef / tri-tip loin cut into 1-inch cube<br />1/2 pound carrots, (I used baby carrots)<br />1 pc tomato (optional)<br />2 pcs red potatoes (optional)<br />1 medium sized onions, sliced<br />2 cloves chopped garlic<br />1/2 cup Cognac (optional)<br />2/3 (750 ml.) bottle good dry red wine (I used Merlot for a rustic/full-bodied taste)<br />1 can beef broth<br />1 tablespoon tomato paste<br />1 teaspoon fresh thyme leaves (1/2 teaspoon dried)<br />4 tablespoons unsalted butter at room temperature, divided<br />3 tablespoons all-purpose flour<br />1/2 pound fresh mushroom, thickly sliced<br />salt and pepper<br />1/2 cup chopped fresh parsley, optional for serving<br />Directions<br />Preheat the oven to 250 degrees F.<br /><br />Heat the olive oil in a large Dutch oven. Add the bacon and cook over medium heat for 10 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the bacon is lightly browned. Remove the bacon to a large plate. Dry the beef cubes with paper towels and then sprinkle them with salt and pepper. In batches in single layers, sear the beef in the hot oil for 3 to 5 minutes, turning to brown on all sides. Remove the seared cubes to the plate with the bacon and continue searing until all the beef is browned. Set aside.<br /><br />Toss the carrots, onions (tomato and potatoes), 1 tablespoon of salt and 2 teaspoons of pepper in the fat in the pan and cook for 10 to 15 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the onions are lightly browned. Add the garlic and cook for 1 more minute. (Optional: Add the Cognac, stand back, and ignite with a match to burn off the alcohol.) Put the meat and bacon back into the pot with the juices. Add the bottle of wine plus enough beef broth to almost cover the meat. Add the tomato paste and thyme. Bring to a simmer, cover the pot with a tight-fitting lid and place it in the oven for about 1 1/2 hours or until the meat and vegetables are very tender when pierced with a fork.<br /><br />Combine 2 tablespoons of butter and the flour with a fork and stir into the stew. Saute the mushrooms in 2 tablespoons of butter for 10 minutes until lightly browned and then add to the stew. Bring the stew to a boil on top of the stove, then lower the heat and simmer for 15 minutes. Season to taste. (For each serving, sprinkle with parsley.)<br /><br /><em><span style="font-size:85%;">- the mister’s reaction upon tasting this was “perfect”. (takot nya lang magutom!) </span></em></span></div></div>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-53251218020300625842011-05-23T10:26:00.000-07:002011-05-23T10:58:40.521-07:00Food Blog Entry #2 - Moules Au ChampignonI never wanted to try French cuisine. I told myself that if I couldn’t pronounced the name of a dish I won’t eat it. I ate my words as usual.<br /><br />My brother and I went to this local French bistro called <a href="http://bleuboheme.com/">Bleu Boheme</a> for lunch. He ordered Coc Au Vin (braised chicken) while I got Boeuf Bourguignon (braised beef). For appetizer we had this Moules Au Champignon. It's just mussels in cream sauce, but it is to die for! (Especially when you have a newly-baked bread for dipping! Yum!) Anyway, my mom always cooks mussels but it is the Filipino way of cooking it. – soup based, Tinola-like. This one was exceptional, very savory because of the herbs and white wine used to sauté it.<br /><br />And so the search for the recipe began. Fortunately, I found one close enough for this bistro to have a run for their money (of course, I modified it). ;] The mister was impressed, so was I.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFpIoBr6euDmrj1LHoHZf8SzEQbfXzNR2ku6hO-X58Oh5haxZO9uC7Jzu78L2oeBecAD0ZNIv5bQUZGlCuV8ci3e6I9-wnnlsL6xIP7aylnDbsGAfRe-SAPuUMLDGLqGgxnE2gU_T5YaZz/s1600/c3.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 200px; HEIGHT: 236px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5609971111616417922" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFpIoBr6euDmrj1LHoHZf8SzEQbfXzNR2ku6hO-X58Oh5haxZO9uC7Jzu78L2oeBecAD0ZNIv5bQUZGlCuV8ci3e6I9-wnnlsL6xIP7aylnDbsGAfRe-SAPuUMLDGLqGgxnE2gU_T5YaZz/s320/c3.jpg" /></a><br /><br />Ingredients:<br />1/2-1 lb mussel (cleaned)<br />2 tbsp. butter<br />2 tbsp. cooking oil<br />1 cup fresh mushrooms, sliced<br />2 pcs. salami (bacon can be used, just drain the fats when sautéed)<br />1 tsp. thyme, rosemary, oregano or mixed herbs<br />1/2-1 cup dry white wine (I used blanc de blanc, chardonnay would be fine too.)<br />1/2 pint heavy cream<br />1 tbsp. Flour<br />2 cloves of garlic, 1/2 onion (to taste)<br />Chopped parsley<br />Pinch salt<br />Pinch pepper<br /><br />Directions<br />In a skillet, put a little bit of oil. Throw in fresh mushrooms, garlic, onion, and salami; sauté. Then put the mussels. Add wine. Reduce until almost gone. Add the mixed herbs, salt, and pepper. Put in heavy cream. Reduce until thick. In separate skillet mix butter and flour, mix and brown. Add to cream sauce. Whisk it until thick. Use chopped parsley to garnish dish.elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-17630692405833358052011-05-20T12:04:00.000-07:002011-05-23T10:23:04.477-07:00Food Blog Entry #1 - Creamy Tomato Penne With Spinach<span style="font-family:arial;">A friend once told me to make my blog “Julie & Julia” style. I don’t know if I can commit to cook (and then blog about it) everyday! I can do it once in a while though. I’m starting to be kitchen-smart now (if there’s such a word). For jeezsake, I’m beginning to have a cabinet full of spices.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">I grew up watching my mom cook. Even before I was born, her passion has always been cooking. She even made me a recipe notebook that’s handy every so often. Since I got married I’ve been interested into trying out new kitchen techniques (the mister acts as my guinea pig. I haven't heard him complained... yet.). Some were successful, some weren’t but I’m proud to say that to date, all was edible. I decided that I’d share those recipes that in my opinion are salivatingly good!<br /><br />To start this food-blog-entry series is my take on “Creamy Tomato Penne with Spinach”. Great thing about this recipe is that you can always substitute. I love modifying ingredients and directions to my own convenience. You can always use a different pasta or put more veggies according to your preference.<br /><br /></span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhengjwWslhdfBLwk8jsGx08kQanFTHZNrRP6krSBREC1ZpNoUA9UhPKtDbOP5BUfMc8xLGzRve_GRhVeFTnN41ICkZJhG-npbu2BOrb3E3GQhB9yh4xsA6MD7OJ7yR7V3V0AGcXIoi7I3J/s1600/c2.jpg"><span style="font-family:arial;"><img style="WIDTH: 205px; HEIGHT: 242px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5608876539503098034" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhengjwWslhdfBLwk8jsGx08kQanFTHZNrRP6krSBREC1ZpNoUA9UhPKtDbOP5BUfMc8xLGzRve_GRhVeFTnN41ICkZJhG-npbu2BOrb3E3GQhB9yh4xsA6MD7OJ7yR7V3V0AGcXIoi7I3J/s320/c2.jpg" /></span></a><br /><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">Ingredients:<br />1 jar of your favorite pasta sauce<br />1 16 oz package penne pasta<br />fresh spinach<br />4 tsp cream cheese, or to taste<br />4 tbsp parmesan alternative<br />1 tsp parsley (garnish)</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;"><br />Directions:<br /><br />Cook pasta according to package directions. While pasta is cooking, heat the jarred pasta sauce. throw in the chopped spinach. Drain the cooked pasta, and combine it with the pasta sauce. Lower the heat level, and stir in the cream cheese or parmesan. Serve and enjoy! </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-39366636853596688862011-05-19T08:22:00.000-07:002011-05-19T15:56:36.061-07:00The Battle To Lose Weight Is On!<span style="font-family:arial;">During my whole pregnancy I gained a whooping 40lbs. It was the heaviest state that I’ve been in my whole life. Post-childbirth, I lost about half of it (which made me very happy) but I want to be back to my old weight or at least 2-5lbs more. I know it’s doable, I just need a LOT of motivation to do so. I want to be able to fit in my clothes again; to be as active as before too.<br /><br />We don't diet much. Though we limit eating out because homecooked meals are oftentimes healthier. This way I could practice my passion for cooking too, recipes just excite me! Also, the mister and I have bought this exercise DVD – P90x. Oh my, it’s not a walk in the park! We sweat like crazy, we were so sore the next day we do a routine; bottomline is its actually working! I hope we’ll be religious enough to complete our 90 days because sometimes we get lazy. Well, at least we are in this together. I believe it's more fun and more effective this way, working out with a partner.<br /><br />Bring it! (As per the DVD! ;P)</span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-18496865476271875412011-05-03T09:53:00.001-07:002011-05-03T09:53:48.608-07:00The Light That Guides Me Home<span style="font-family:arial;">Family life is like a rollercoaster ride so far. Mostly ups, though the downs are inevitable. It’s just that I get overwhelm sometimes. Before Elysse was born, Vince and I could just sit and relax at 9pm. Having her around makes 24 hours seem not enough. I am not complaining, I just feel tired once in a while. Physical, that is. Then there are all these other matters like finances and work obligations. I remembered what Vince’s cousin told us, “always be good to each other, no matter what”. There are moments that I bitch around now because of stress and I feel guilty about it. Perhaps in times like this I should count my blessings, instead. I should really take a minute or two to contemplate that we’re fortunate than most people. I have a loving husband and a sweet daughter, they should be enough to keep me happy.<br /><br />This morning I prayed hard for the Lord to clear my perspective, for Him to grant me more patience and understanding. Afterall my family is the light that indeed guides me home. </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-41545686580310288932011-04-21T12:00:00.000-07:002011-04-21T12:04:27.182-07:00On Family Vacations II<span style="font-family:arial;">We introduced Elysse to her first “supposedly-less-than-6hr-turned-more-than-7hr” roadtrip. One thing we learned -- roadtripping via car is much different from riding an airplane! It is more tedious! Mind you, we stopped almost every other hour and a half to change her soiled diaper or to feed her or for her to catch a breather just because she’s getting bored inside the car. We had an idea that our recent family escapade would be a little off the schedule but we didn’t expect for something that involved so much work! Everything turned out to be very enjoyable anyway. New experience, that was.<br /><br />We went to Vegas for my brother’s birthday and my parent's anniversary celebration. Elysse was amazed that she kept on making cooing sounds while strolling inside the many hotel malls. I was surprised when I brought her into one of the children’s boutique. She became excited and her eyes just brightened upon looking at this particular yellow dress. Too bad the store didn’t have her size. But at least I know Elysse could be my shopping buddy when she grows up. Hah! </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-32950228165060400872011-04-07T11:12:00.000-07:002011-04-07T11:17:44.687-07:00Living by St. Teresa of Avila's Words<span style="font-family:arial;"><em>"Let nothing disturb you. <br />Let nothing make you afraid. <br />All things are passing. <br />God alone never changes. <br />Patience gains all things. <br />If you have God you will want for nothing. <br />God alone suffices."</em> <br /><br />Lately, some situations just pushed us to feel a little anxious. It’s normal to fear, I know. Especially that we have Elysse now, Vince and I have to be more concern. I just want to really be on Vince's side whenever he's down too. Perhaps we have to remind ourselves often that we have the Lord in our family life; that is enough to assure us that everything will be fine.</span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-90117308381768787152011-04-01T09:44:00.000-07:002011-04-01T09:54:30.104-07:00On Luke 6:38<span style="font-family:arial;">"Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” <br /><br />I should remind myself of this bible verse everytime I feel overwhelmed with life. Even if things are hard sometimes; even if 24 hours in a day aren't enough; even if circumstances don't always agree with us, I believe that we've been blessed with so much. He has His plans and I just have to keep my incessant faith in Him that everything will happen in His own perfect time. </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-15204454318923384262011-03-29T09:00:00.001-07:002011-03-29T09:04:47.293-07:00On Family Vacations<span style="font-family:arial;">Vince and I love to travel and this is probably one of the qualities that made us clicked in the beginning. When I got pregnant, we thought that having a child would limit our capacity to trot somewhere. We even went to Seattle last year while I was on my 6th month with the thinking that it’s our last hurrah to this passion of ours. <br /><br />But then on my birthday we went to Hawaii. We planned this long before Elysse was out. There’s this anxiety though that she might have a hard time travelling with us. We were wrong! My little jetsetter behaved perfectly during our roundtrip plane rides. She didn’t mind the pressure whatsoever since that was our main concern. <br /><br />It’s just that going on vacation with a child is different. We researched places and dined at restaurants that are kid-friendly; we made sure that our activities would suit her; in short, she’s first in our priority. Not to mention all the stuff we needed to do for her in between (e.g. change diapers, feed her, be sensitive when she’s tired already, etc.). <br /><br />I realized it’s not just Vince and I anymore. Those times when we could be as spontaneous as we can are over, for now at least. But what excites me is that we have more room to make new memories now. I’d love that someday Elysse would see our vacation pictures and be happy that we tugged her along with us. It would make us feel fulfilled as parents that she’d have a wonderful collection of family adventures. <br /><br />So without any hesitations, we planned the next. Yay! Can’t wait! </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-37816192900505858442011-03-17T09:37:00.000-07:002011-03-17T09:38:06.367-07:00When Separation Anxiety Attacks<span style="font-family:arial;">My maternity leave’s up and I came back to work last Monday. It never occurred to me that it’d be such a fuss since I worked out a schedule with my boss. Plus the fact that it was my choice because I’ve been working since I graduated college and having a baby won’t be a problem in pursuing my personal growth. I didn’t know why I felt what I felt last Sunday night while I was organizing my office stuff. I just experienced this sudden feeling of sadness. What made it weirder was I actually cried to Vince. Yearning for my daughter and our routine for the past two months went to pass my thoughts, Silly, I know because I’m only working with less hours now but I can’t explain why I began to think that I’d be missing out on her. Oh, motherhood – so wonderful, yet so complex.</span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-19069649874148887142011-02-10T14:45:00.001-08:002011-02-10T15:10:14.576-08:00On Being A Mommy!To start off, January 6 at 3am Vince drove to the hospital because I had these painful contractions. I knew it was "labor" but I didn't expect that I'm almost 7cm dilated when we checked in. Everybody thought I'd be done by noon but the little miss was so comfy inside that she came out around 5pm. Talk about 14hours of labor, eh? I had epidural so it's not that dramatic. Though we were told that if she was distressed, they'd advice a C-section. Thank God, I delivered her normally. Most people we know said she resembles me much. From her almond eyes to her small curvy lips, no doubt she's mine. She has Vince's bedimpled smile, though but frankly speaking, she's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in my life. The feeling that we shared when we first saw her was indescribable!<br /><br />It has been more than a month since I first laid my eyes on my Elysse, and time flies indeed! She makes me fall in love with her more everyda and it seems like she always have something to teach about motherhood. (I don't even know what to write first!) Her first three days were the most stressful. Vince and I were disappointed and frustrated (not to mention, tired!) because we cannot stop her from crying. Well, what could you expect from first-time parents, right? But like what my mama said, everything will get easier. Sure enough, Elysse behaves amazingly now. She has her deep voice when she screams, which we can only hear when she's hungry or when her diaper is soiled. Good thing, Vince researches constantly on newborns.<br /><br />Parenthood is a BIG challenge. We're just very lucky that my family is here to help us. Less "we" time, sleep loss, disorentation, and failed expectations but honestly, it's very rewarding. To see our baby girl's smile, to put her to sleep successfully, to smell her... ahhh it's all intoxicating.<br /><br />We're still learning and we'll learn, for sure. For now, we'll just enjoy our new adventure!elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-51141618645944158572010-12-27T13:24:00.000-08:002010-12-27T13:28:10.069-08:00Birthing Woes<span style="font-family:arial;">Lately I've been pestering the mister about my concerns on my upcoming delivery. Being the pain sissy that I am, I only have three more weeks left to brace myself for this unimaginable agony that I’m about to go through. Don’t get me wrong, I am very much excited to see the little miss -- I can’t wait to I hold her in my arms; it’s just that when the idea of the whole technical process clouds my mind, I begin to have these horrific images of hurt. Too much TV, I know! I’m so glad I was assured by my OB-Gyne that I can get an epidural, and NOBODY could ever stop me from asking for it. I want to be alert and awake when my baby girl comes out. I want to focus on her rather than worry about the uneasiness that I might feel. I’d like that the experience be as comfortable as it could be so I’d have a happy memory of that day.<br /><br />I guess I just have to cross the bridge when I get there. </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-36004719988870571082010-12-09T07:32:00.000-08:002010-12-09T07:35:47.309-08:00So-Called Nesting<span style="font-family:arial;">So, I’m beginning to experience this whole new phase. Elysse will be staying in our room for the meantime, Vince and I chose to not have a second room for now because I would like to be closer to where my little girl sleeps. We gave her a whole corner! Her crib and cabinet are all set, just waiting for her arrival. It’s funny how I can’t explain the feeling that everytime I go inside our room I have this urge to peek on the furniture and touch them. I’m even finished with putting up wall appliques just for my miss. I'm super meticulous that every inch of space gets cleaned. Well, I guess I’m just really excited.</span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-77709648603953816042010-11-16T09:42:00.000-08:002010-11-16T09:50:01.683-08:00Shopping For My Girl<span style="font-family:arial;">I always loved shopping but it’s definitely a different feeling buying stuff for our little girl. The joy’s just more amazing and pure. Last weekend we bought her a stroller. I’ve had this certain model in my mind for quite sometime now. The mister and I saved up for this in particular. I’m picky but heck, all the best for my miss! Yesterday, the Storksak arrived at our doorsteps. I’ve spent hours looking for that perfect diaper bag; thankfully, I found it!<br /><br />I may sound materialistic and people perhaps think that I buy all-pricey merchandise but at least they’re worth my penny. And quality is just something I can never compensate. I’d rather purchase reasonably expensive goods that could last for how many years than cheap one-to-two-usage craps, right?<br /><br />I also finished my baby registry. My brother and my friend planned my wedding shower soon. Yay! I really don’t like asking for gifts but this is practical for us. (I made sure I asked for useful ones, though.)<br /><br />Ah, it’s now single digit weeks of waiting. We’re down to more or less 9! </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-22989552858370739472010-11-10T13:25:00.000-08:002010-11-10T13:31:26.445-08:00Fast Forward<span style="font-family:arial;">Today marks our “first date” anniversary (if there’s such a thing!). I don’t want to be sentimental but I always reminisce this 10th of November 2007. It’s because this day then changed everything in my world (well perhaps in his too!). I’m claiming that this Disneyland adventure with him (and bien, as our third wheel) was the turning point in my life.<br /><br />I must admit he’s an amazing conversationalist but that’s about it. His appeal was quite ordinary, he's dressed in the usual jeans, shirt, and sneakers (while I was complete with my scarf and Uggs). I thought he was kind of conceited then and very much the suplado-type. He won’t even budge in even if I begged him to pose solo for the camera. We started that way. Me, being my “feeling-close” yet sarcastic self and him, having this look that said he couldn’t believe he’s stuck with us for the whole day in the happiest place on Earth! Not even in my wildest dream that I guessed we’d click.<br /><br />But three years after, here we are now in our best state yet. We’re married and expecting our little one in less than two months – in my mind, how crazy life could really get? Seriously. </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-49938973801803171882010-10-28T11:32:00.000-07:002010-10-28T11:34:54.565-07:00Getting There<span style="font-family:arial;">I consider myself a control freak. I want everything to be done my way, at my own time, using my own pace. Being pregnant made me realize that some things shouldn’t be so predictably planned; that I have to trust the people around me more because they care for me (can you imagine my brother throwing me a my baby shower?!); and that I have to accept the fact that the world doesn’t revolve around me very often and I could be happier if I could make it go around somebody else (ahmm right now, the little miss!).<br /><br />It’s a humbling experience knowing that I cannot chuck just any kind of food in my mouth or drink whatever I used to enjoy drinking before (REAL coffee and alcohol, to be exact!). It’s the feeling of prioritizing the baby’s health over my own satisfaction. This whole experience is teaching me to value those loved ones that have been supportive of me since day one of my pregnancy. This has opened my eyes as to how much the mister loves me. He’s been trying so hard to make me as comfortable as possible even if it means he’ll have to sleep in a less bed space than normal. Knowing that my family and friends are all excited to meet my daughter in January gives me an overwhelming confidence to brave motherhood.<br /><br />Two and a half more months, I could hardly wait! </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-196922755193370942010-10-07T08:17:00.000-07:002010-10-07T08:22:24.134-07:00Para Kay Elysse<em><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">*i'm beginning to fall, more and more, in love with HER everyday.</span></em><br /><em><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"></span></em><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">Ngayon palang nakikini-kinita ko na ang magiging halaga mo sa buhay ko. Kung papaanong hindi pa man kita nakikita’y nahuhulog na ang loob ko sa’yo; animo’y balang araw daragdagan mo pa ang saysay ng mundo. Kung ano pa man ang nagawa kong mahusay para ikaw ang syang ibigay ay ipinagpapasalamat kong lubos.<br /><br />Ngayon palang pinapangarap ko na ang iyong mga ngiti. Kahit pa imposibleng paraan para mapasaya ka ay iniisip ko nang malalim. Laging pinaplanong masaluhan ka sa lahat ng pait at giyera ng daigdig; pantasya kong tinig mo na’y marinig. Kung papaanong magniningning o iirap ang mga mata mo’y palaisipan kong parati.<br /><br />Ngayon palang pangako ko nang magiging lakas mo ako’t takbuhan. Kahit ilang bagyo pa’y sasamahan kitang sumuong at umalpas; tatabihan kitang humiling sa mga tala at mabighani sa buwan. Kapag kulimlim ang langit mo, ako ang sayo’y aalalay; balang araw mararamdaman mo rin itong dakila kong pagmamahal.<br /></span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-1082912919432206362010-09-21T10:09:00.000-07:002010-09-21T10:24:06.497-07:00And We’re A Day Closer Into Meeting The Little MISS!<span style="font-family:arial;">Updates? Hmmm, to start off… I’m looking more pregnant everyday, finally! I was just excited to wear maternity clothes and now I can actually buy them. </span><br /><p align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2x7fUAS1Pmq7y5d2cAh7BMeJkybO01ZzzOI77cwydfhb3gG0NnMzvWMoJ2pCl0ZAkM7CeUXhs-q2BP_8WtCgugmfNZEtsTdt7k98iyUnK2t5zouGlohqnbk1V8L9nyXDpPUs2zHgbnX9I/s1600/1.1.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 143px; HEIGHT: 236px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5519415642083422050" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2x7fUAS1Pmq7y5d2cAh7BMeJkybO01ZzzOI77cwydfhb3gG0NnMzvWMoJ2pCl0ZAkM7CeUXhs-q2BP_8WtCgugmfNZEtsTdt7k98iyUnK2t5zouGlohqnbk1V8L9nyXDpPUs2zHgbnX9I/s320/1.1.jpg" /></a> </p><p align="center"><span style="font-size:85%;"><em>*here's a proof of my ever-growing belly</em></span></p><span style="font-family:arial;">Since I still feel super active, the mister and I plan “mini-weekend-getaways” every now and then. We make it a point to be a little laid-back, though. Like relaxing on a resort hotel, going on a date and eating out, or simply watching a movie. I realized that some couples nowadays tend to take for granted how it is to be husbands and wives because they’re too overwhelmed by family life. That’s why we made a pact to never forget our “us time”. We’re blessed that my family is here to help us out in rearing our soon-to-be child.<br /><br />During my last appointment, my OB-Gyne told us that we’re having a girl! She’s actually moving a lot now, especially at night! I’m becoming more familiar with her sleeping patterns. I’m happy that Vince can feel her squirming too. Unlike before when he was thinking that she’s totally ignoring him.<br /><br />At first, we preferred to have a little guy but after knowing that my initial glucose test and some abnormality exam turned out to be both negative, we were just in bliss. We’re so grateful that our daughter is growing healthy, we couldn’t ask for more.<br /><br />After all, a “mini-me” sounds VERY enticing! Don’t you think?! ;]</span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-26773984055322738582010-08-11T08:46:00.000-07:002010-08-11T08:51:15.455-07:00Flaws and All<span style="font-family:arial;">Looking back my past entries, I realized I haven’t spoken about my relationship with the mister as much as I talked about him when weren’t married yet. I used to write love letter-like blogs before every so often. (and now, I’m going to try and concoct one!) I was inspired when Regine Velasquez sang Beyonce’s Flaws and All for Ogie last Sunday. I cannot stop thinking of its lyrics. It’s simple yet direct to the point. (Esp. on the “I’m a bitch in the afternoon” part! Haha!)<br /><br />Since our wedding on February, our life has been on a whirlwind of change. We moved to our own apartment a couple of months ago; we begin doing things inseparably; we never miss eating dinner together; sometimes we watch the same reality shows and actually enjoy it! (Not to mention that we’re counting the days to finally meet our little one.)<br /><br />The mister doesn’t care if once in a while I look wasted at night (note: without alcohol!). Sometimes I’m too tired to even blow dry my hair so he’ll help me do it. He has not failed to wash the dishes and to take out the trash (because he knows that I don’t like doing those things that much). He tolerates my mood swings and understands my inconsistent emotions due to hormonal surges. I have these pointless arguments now and then while he remains calm and ready to give me a hug.<br /><br />In short, he accepts me flaws and all (just like the lyrics of the song). And this for me is married life; it’s much about pure unconditional love/commitment. I know we have yet to learn so many things but I’m contented that right now we’re doing a lot of progress. </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-21335978902103879582010-07-08T10:54:00.000-07:002010-07-08T11:00:46.806-07:00Off To The Next Trimester<span style="font-family:arial;">I got past the first trimester, thank God!<br /><br />I’m looking forward to those less-morning-sickness days, as promised. Everybody is anticipating for the baby bump. (Mine’s still small but I can see that it’s starting to come out.) My appetite is just the same – uncontrollable! It just feels so good when I crave for something and then I get it right away. Like it’s the most delicious food I’ve ever eaten in my life. Right now, I always go for potatoes. I don’t know why but I love french fries and hash browns. Weird because I didn’t believe that you can actually salivate for a particular food, but here I am, always trying to get my hands on those oh-so-great baked potatoes.<br /><br />Aside from the usual “pregnant-hood” stuff, I am experiencing something deeper. Sometimes I catch myself thinking how magical it is to carry a child. Imagining how the baby grows and survives inside my own body gives me goosebumps. I’m in awe just by realizing that I’m being a part of His marvelous plan to create life.<br /><br />Okay I better stop before I burst into tears (FYI, unavoidable dramatic episodes are acceptable when you’re expecting! :D).<br /><br />Hay, I’m getting hungry again. </span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-33057000360428537952010-06-07T13:14:00.000-07:002010-06-07T13:17:20.238-07:00Weight Un-ConsciousI’m now on my eighth week of pregnancy and boy oh boy, my appetite has never been this crazy! I eat a lot even before but now it’s totally out of control. I’m literally hungry every two hours. That’s the average time for food to metabolize, I know. I can’t help it or else my stomach would growl.<br /><br />Lately I’m not so much into coffee. I can still drink decaf but it doesn't appeal to my tastebuds like before. Plus it makes me more acidic and nauseous. I eat a lot of bread and sweets, to think that I’m not a dessert person. I have unusual cravings for meat and sometimes whatever I see on TV or mentioned in Facebook by a friend would be my next obsession.<br /><br />Frankly, this is the first time in my life that I do not care about weight. (Though, once in a while I complain of looking ‘rounder’ than ever!) I just know I have every right to gain all of these excess pounds. I believe it to be a part of this wonderful experience.<br /><br />And the mister thinks that I’m still beautiful, he always tells me so.elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-3585064439165547502010-05-26T11:14:00.000-07:002010-05-26T13:49:08.017-07:00You Can Never Find Time For Anything. If You Want Time, You Must Make It.<span style="font-family:arial;">These words really shook my senses. I started thinking of what my should-make-time to-do list are, I came up with five:<br /></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">1. …read books again. I’ve always been fascinated with literature. I love stories that are compelling and could challenge my brain cells to function. I miss learning new words and adding them to my vocabulary. It seems that I’m going to have extra minutes soon. I can't wait!<br /></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">2. …watch sensible/worthy films religiously (again!). Before, I used to pop a good DVD whenever I get the chance. Now that I haven’t for the longest time, my must-see list is getting longer. I remember the days when I’m able to see 3 movies in one sitting. Then do my own ‘critic’ afterwards. Like my passion for books, films keep my mind active.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">3. …travel. On our humble beginnings, the mister and I spend time on weekends only. We are almost 2-hr drive apart so whenever we meet up we make it a point to go somewhere we’ve never been; being the adventurous couple that we are. It doesn’t require it to be an extravagant roadtrip; just driving side-by-side and enjoying each other company. Perhaps we could squeeze in little trips once in a while since my situation is limited.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">4. …catch up with my friends and family. One of the essentials that most people fail to realize is making time for loved ones. We know that they’re just there but isn’t it more thoughtful to be regularly updated with how they’ve been? I will always remind myself of this task because I don’t want to be like others who neglect amazing relationships and regret in the end.</span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">5. …(the hardest but the most crucial of all) be the wife that the mister ever needs and be the mommy that my little one should/must have when he/she comes out seven and a half months from now. Why I made this the top priority is because the transformation would not happen if I don’t will it to. I could slack in my own selfish world, not adjusting to my present condition; I know that the mister would love me no matter what. But I am aware since we got married that I now have the responsibility to be a partner, included in this is the openness to be childbearing. I maybe experiencing being a wife -- cooking for us, organizing the house, budgeting our resources etc and I want to excel more in this role; but to be a mother (except for the morning sickness that happens to attack even on noon and night!, back pains, and ravenous appetite) I don’t have any particular hands-on on record. I admit I’m not 100% ready until I’m there in that exact situation. For now, it’s enough that I have the conscious decision to make time for it.</span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1528547349264097653.post-9298022239323808702010-05-20T10:46:00.000-07:002010-05-20T10:47:29.378-07:00Choosing My Battles... Wisely!<span style="font-family:arial;">Sometimes I fight until the end but there are those instances that I know I just have to surrender for me to win my peace. Some aren’t worth the time so why bother; some are too shallow to even ponder about. I think that in my 26 years of existence I’m already aware which wars are deserving of my efforts. I barely sweat on unavoidable complexities, petty qualms, and even transitory relationships. All because I already learned that no matter hard I drive myself, in the end I just have to let go and let God.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">Everything is different now that I’m up against the greatest challenge in my life (to date!). I catch myself as my own nemesis at certain moments. The plans I’m more than determined to break and soon to create to fulfill my mission. Oh the things I gave up and I’m so willing to give up for its goodness sake. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">Six weeks and growing.</span>elainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11844373953295663815noreply@blogger.com0